Drawn from previous posts, this is not part of my book The Greatest Record Ever Made! (Volume 1).
An infinite number of tracks can each be THE greatest record ever made, s long as they take turns. Today, this is THE GREATEST RECORD EVER MADE!
Our lives are accompanied by ache. The characteristics of the ache--the litany of losses, failures, broken trusts, broken promises, broken wills, and broken bones--are suffered with infinite variety, each collection of aches as unique as fingerprints or favorite records. Our ache is our own ache. Others may sympathize and care deeply, and we bless them all. We are better people if we care.
But no one else knows exactly what we're going through, no matter how similar their own aches may be. We didn't come off an assembly line. Our mileage varies. We contain multitudes.
Still, it can be nice to know there is someone on our side.
When we can help, we do. We have to. There may not be all that much we can do, sure. Still, we stand, we listen, and we lend a hand when a hand is what's needed. We speak or offer silent support, as the situation demands. When the time is right, we seek a shared comfort in the fragile delights this imperfect life can offer.
Shared comfort. Someone is on our side.
The dynamic duo of Circe Link and Christian Nesmith are so, so adept at the art of popcraft. Everything they do sounds sublime, and their powers and abilities cross genres with authority. Pop music? Classic rock? Folk? Circe and Christian can do it all, and all of it will sound amazing.
I'm not exactly sure when I first became aware of this particular dynamic duo. My This Is Rock 'n' Roll Radio co-host Dana Bonn and I saw Christian play live as a member of the Monkees' touring band in 2012, one of the best concerts I've ever witnessed. Some time later, my jaw dropped when I saw a video of Circe, Christian, and company backing up Micky Dolenz on a live medley of "Porpoise Song" and the Beatles' "Good Morning, Good Morning." Chills. Clearly, there was some amazing talent at work here.
You know how social media works. Algorithms constantly suggests new friends to add to your own social network, based on mutual interests and acquaintances. So somewhen around 2017, when Facebook recommended I add Circe Link to my cyber circle (probably based on our shared friendship with Keith Klingensmith of the Legal Matters), I said yeah yeah yeah even faster'n Micky sings no no no in "Last Train To Clarksville." Because why not?
It was a passive friendship, as many Facebook friendships are. Still, when Circe posted a note about a popular Facebook challenge to quote the fifth sentence on the 56th page of whatever book happened to be the nearest to you at the moment, I responded with a link to a blog I'd just written on that very subject. Circe was amused, and suggested she and Christian come on our radio show some time to chat about books and music.
I already knew a little of Circe's recorded work, and some YouTube videos of covers that she and Christian had done. I went to her website for a deeper catalog dive, and was absolutely smitten with a limited-edition release called The Pop EP. My God, this stuff was terrific! I ordered a CD copy immediately, and I contacted Circe to beg for permission to use a Pop EP track called "I'm On Your Side" on our then-forthcoming compilation album This Is Rock 'n' Roll Radio, Volume 4. After an exchange of questions and assurances (and a much-needed, much-appreciated reference from Keith Klingensmith, just to indicate to Circe that Dana and I were sorta kinda legit), Circe was indeed on our side.
There is music for every occasion. When my daughter got married, picking Joan Jett's "Bad Reputation" as our father-daughter dance perfectly expressed my belief in her independent spirit. When a shattered windshield nearly cancelled a planned trip (which ultimately turned out to be the last time I saw my oldest brother alive), only a spin of Never Mind The Bollocks, Here's The Sex Pistols could properly channel my anger and frustration. When called to deliver eulogies for loved ones, the lyrics of the Kinks' "Days" (for my Dad), the Beach Boys' "God Only Knows" (for my Mom), and Jim Croce's "I Got A Name" (for my Uncle Carl) helped me articulate my loss and my gratitude. And forty-two years ago today, Buddy Holly's "True Love Ways" expressed the hope and promise of love becoming marriage. Happy Anniversary, Brenda. I'm on your side, and I know that you're on mine.
Circe Link's "I'm On Your Side" stands as testament and foundation for all of the above, and more. Our nation is flooded with heartbreak, and the same sorry status applies to the world at large. It applies in ever-changing degree to people we hold dear. It applies to us.
We can't defeat the ache. That doesn't mean we have to accept it. We resist, with will and determination. We resist with the audacity of joy.
Joy embraces us and ours. The ache doesn't vanish. Maybe our joy can sing a little louder, at least for a little while.
The betting line favors the ache, I guess. I'm still placing my chips on joy.
With Circe and Christian singing and playing, we seek that joy together. Bound for glory.
Side by side.
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I compiled a various-artists tribute album called Make Something Happen! A Tribute To The Flashcubes, and it's pretty damned good; you can read about it here and order it here.
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